
Saturday, August 29, 2026
Agnes's First Soccer Game

Friday, August 28, 2026
Onondaga Cave
Wednesday, August 26, 2026
More Big Cedar
We tried a new Big Cedar activity this year: a property-wide scavenger hunt. We started with clues that led to five different locations around Big Cedar, then we had to use something at each location to solve a puzzle, and at the end the answers to all those puzzles were used to solve the final puzzle.
Monday, August 24, 2026
First week of School
After we dropped Mary off on Thursday, it seems her whole weekend was a big welcome festival. Parking lot parties, bumper cars, massive slip-n-slides, free food, free fro-yo, free soda bars, a trampoline, and a school-wide pep rally. This week they actually start classes so I’m hoping the transition isn’t too jarring, although Mary said on the first day of class the campus was dotted with shade tents staffed by students bearing popsicles and campus maps. If you were lost trying to find your class they would give you a popsicle and take you to class.
Michael has also started his regular teaching schedule at Chesterton, but the rest of us without school schedules are enjoying our “not back to school” bash at Big Cedar with Grandma.
We stopped at Two Rivers bike park on the way down. The boys mostly played on the downhill jump line and Edie and I rode some of the trails that she’ll be riding in the last NICA race of the season. We also moved two turtles off the trail.
And Edie tried a few of the features like this see-saw, and she finished off the afternoon riding the beginner downhill line.
Then we finished making our way to Big Cedar. We visited the waterfall after dinner, found a great wedding fit at the gift shop, and finished out the day at the waterfall pool. I made 9pm our pool curfew which Agnes thought was much too early because she had met a new best friend at the pool, as usual.
Friday, August 21, 2026
Rowdy at Heart
Mary is rooming with Autumn, a friend from church who is also a freshman, and her friend Audrey lives on the same floor. I think there’s a very good chance she has a fantastic time, creates some excellent art, and meets some good people.
But I reserve the right to temporarily feel very sorry for myself at the loss of her daily presence in the house. About an hour after we arrived back home, Michael said, “When do you think Mary will be back? I just don’t like that she’s not here.” And that about sums it up.
It occurred to me that last night was realistically the last night all the siblings live together full time in our house, because by the time Mary is home again for more than a weekend, Catherine will be married and moved out. We had an ice cream party and the kids sat around the table playing card games.
Agnes was very confused that I cried when we said goodbye to Mary in the dorms. She couldn’t focus on anything except how lucky Mary is to get to sleep in a super tall lofted bed. At bedtime back home Agnes said, “I bet Mary’s going to have a great first night of sleeping in her new bed.” She’s already planning which of her friends will room with her at SEMO in 2036.
Sunday, August 16, 2026
Nobody Bachelorettes Like They Bachelorette
Catherine started pre-season volleyball practices at Webster this week which means from this point until finals she is busy with school. Mary and several of her friends will also be away at school this fall so they wanted to have Catherine's bachelorette weekend at the farm before everyone scattered. Even though Edie and Agnes are bridesmaids, this was more of a friends' weekend. Catherine, Mary, Lucy, Emma, Audrey, Isabel, and Bernadette spent Friday night through Sunday morning swimming, 4-wheeling, watching movies, wandering the town, and making plans. I was there mostly as an emergency contact. They are all adults but the farm is kind of far out there.
Photo dump!
Mary found this white bow for Catherine and made matching navy bows for the rest of the girls using ribbon from one of Catherine's shower gifts and some trim leftover from making the bridesmaids' veils.
They bought matching pajamas for the weekend, obviously.
































